Sexplanations:)

[mrdreamjeans]

"Isn't it better to feel something intensely even if you're wounded in the process?"

I'm pondering this question from a novel I just finished reading. It's talking about relationships, but I suppose it could apply to friendships and even to specific fetishes and sex acts.

I know emotional wounding is hard for me to take when it happens; but I think I would rather risk that, then feel nothing at all.

I am desiring a sexplanation:)

Comments

Even sentimental fleas do it

[excessor.livejournal.com]

Is there something you want to tell us?

Intent and context, as in many things, have a lot to do with a comprehensive answer. If you're open to being wounded or accept being wounded as a consequence of intense feeling, then I suppose it's part of the landscape. I think it can even foster a sense of greater intimacy. For those of us who love intimacy, it's probably worthwhile.

If your heart (or whatever) has been wounded too often or if you're not able to make the decision or fear it, then it's probably not worth it.

Or are you asking something much more basic and I'm just not getting it yet? :-)

Re: Even sentimental fleas do it

[mrdreamjeans.livejournal.com]

I'm not speaking of any specific example of my own:) I'm always open to emotional discovery... as you've so nicely said, "For those of us who love intimacy, it's probably worthwhile:) I just wanted to open up the discussion in the widest sense....Thanks for posting:)